Darien High School 1969

January 15, 2010

Class Blog

Marriage, divorces, births, deaths, job hassles...What's going on....We'd like to know

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Webmeister on January 20, 2010 11:26 AM

Erich Segal, author of Love Story, died Sunday, January 17. Should we say we are sorry?

Miracle Max on January 23, 2010 3:56 PM

"Only if it is true love, true love. Only thing better is a nice MLT, mutton, lettuce and tomato sandwich when the mutton is nice and lean and the tomatoes are ripe and so nice and perky. Tsk...tsk...tsk...That is a noble cause! Miracle Max

Mrs. Castorini on January 24, 2010 1:49 PM

So do you love him, Loretta. Yeah Ma, I love him awful. Ah...that's too bad. Mrs. Castorini

Ronny Cammareri on January 26, 2010 11:04 AM

Loretta, I love you. Not like they told you love is, and I didn't know this either, but love don't make things nice - it ruins everything. It breaks your heart. It makes things a mess. We aren't here to make things perfect. The snowflakes are perfect. The stars are perfect. Not us. Not us! We are here to ruin ourselves and to break our hearts and love the wrong people and die. The storybooks are bullshit. Now I want you to come upstairs with me and get in my bed!

Loretta Castorini on January 26, 2010 8:13 PM

You ruined my life. Yes you did. Oh yes you did. You got your bad eyes like a gypsy. And I don't know why I didn't see it yesterday. Bad luck....that's what it is. Is that all I'm going to have? I should have taken a rock and killed myself years ago. You hear me? It never happened.

Webmeister on January 26, 2010 9:51 PM

Ok- enough with the Moonstruck quotes (and Princess Bride).

The Professor in the Grand Ticino Ristorante on January 29, 2010 8:37 AM

You are absolutely right. Bobo, remove all traces of the preceding paragraphs, and bring me a dry martini.

Oliver Barrett IV on January 30, 2010 9:04 AM

Look, Cavalleri, I know your game, and I'm tired of playing it. You are the supreme Radcliffe smart-ass...

Webmeister on February 1, 2010 3:29 PM

Jerome David (JD) Salinger died January 27. Would you say Catcher in the Rye is one of the great novels we read in Jr-Sr High School?

Webmeister on February 7, 2010 12:10 PM

If you could write a new quote under your picture (like we did with our senior pictures) what would it be?

George Wehmann on February 10, 2010 10:31 AM

All I can say is, "WOW !! "What an Animation !!!
http://www.youtube.com/watch_popup?v=jEjUAnPc2VA#t=20

Heuvel on February 10, 2010 10:55 AM

George- Incredible. Spectacular animation.

George Wehmann on February 10, 2010 10:36 AM

My new yearbook quote(s)?
"Everything is equally opposite to what it seems."
"Don't know where you're going? Then any road will take you there" (so follow The Yellowbrick Road).
"Nothing is as devastating to an opinion as a true fact."

Heuvel on February 18, 2010 8:17 AM

My new quote, "Let this be a lesson..."

George Wehmann on February 18, 2010 9:26 AM

Or...."What were you thinking?!"

Heuvel on February 24, 2010 10:04 AM

George- how about this quote from Dave Berry:

What I look forward to is continued immaturity followed by death

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December 1, 2009

Happy Holidays!

Holiday greetings to all. Send us your shout-outs.

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The Craigs on November 26, 2009 10:49 AM

T'was the night of Thanksgiving
and I just couldn't sleep.
I tried counting backwards
I tried counting sheep.
The leftovers beckoned
the dark meat and white
'tho I the fought temptation
with all of my might.
Tossing and turning with anticipation
the thought of a snack became infatuation!

So I raced to the kitchen
flung open the door.
And gazed at the fridge
full of goodies galore.
I gobbled up turkey
and buttered potatoes.
Pickles, beans and tomatoes.

I felt myself swelling so plump and so round
'Til all of a sudden I rose off the ground.
I crashed through the ceiling
floating into the sky
With a mouthful of pudding
And a handful of pie.
But I managed to yell as I soared passed the trees
"Happy Thanksgiving to all
Pass the cranberries please.

May your stuffing be tasty
may your turkey be plump.
May your potatoes 'n' gravy
have nary a lump.
May your yams be delicious
May your pie take the prize
And may your Thanksgiving dinner
Stay off of your thighs.

John vdH on December 5, 2009 10:48 PM

Merry Christmas to Thom MacVicker- unknown address, unlisted phone, no computer nor e-mail. Got a very nice card. Merry Christmas back at you. Heuvel

Ticket Taker on December 15, 2009 8:56 PM

Twas the night of Thanksgiving and out of the house
Tiger Woods came a flyin', chased by his spouse.
She wielded a nine iron and wasn't too merry,
Cause a bimbo’s phone number was in his Blackberry.

He’d been cheatin' on Elin, and the story progressed.
Woman after woman stepped up and confessed.
He’d been cheatin’ with Holly, and Jaimee, and Cori,
With Joselyn, and Kalika. The world had the story.

From the top of the Tour to the basement of blues,
Tiger’s sad sordid tale was all over the news.
With hostesses, waitresses, he had lots of sex,
When not in their pants, he was sendin' them texts.

Despite all his cryin’ and beggin' and pleadin',
Tiger’s wife went investin' -- a new home in Sweden.
I heard her exclaim from her white Escalade,
"If you’re gettin' laid then I’m gettin' paid."
She’s not pouting, in fact, she’s of jolly good cheer,
‘Cause her prenup made Christmas come early this year.

Mark Tinker on December 25, 2009 9:19 PM

I'll assume that the Heuvel boy is responsible for the care and feeding of this site and to that end I'd like to extend a hearty thank you from the West coast for keeping the Spirit of '69 alive and well on the interweb. You're a good, creative man Johnny boy and it's always fun to see the latest updates, pictures and comments.
A Merry Christmas and Happy New Year to you and all those occasioning upon your continuing wonderful work.

R.I.P. John Stringer and all other classmates no longer with us.

Heuvel on December 29, 2009 10:31 PM

God Bless us, everyone one!

Tim (Tiny) Cratchett (1843)

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September 30, 2009

What's Up for the 45th?!

After the fun we had at the 40th, people are beginning to think of the 45th if you can believe it! What do you think?

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Sally Armus Shutts on September 30, 2009 11:36 AM

What a great job you guys did!!!!!!!!!!! Was a fabulous weekend with wonderful classmates and friends. Hope we can pull off 45th and would be willing to help from FL. How about a reunion CRUISE? Little work and might be able to get good group rate. Anyone in the travel bus?
Sally

Heuvel on September 30, 2009 11:36 AM

Sally- I love that idea. A cruise for the 45th. Let's look into it.

George Wehmann on October 21, 2009 11:17 AM

Cruise sounds good, but wife Karen gets sea sick. Others may have same problem. For same or less $ per person, how about renting a few places at the North Carolina beach in the off season when the prices are great and so is the weather - April, May, September, October. There's the beaches, deep sea fishing boats, sightseeing, wineries, lots to do and see.

Mardie Porter on October 23, 2009 6:49 PM

Hey folks out there, the section called "Class Update" implies that we might occasionally update it! I'd love to hear about your life AFTER the reunion and maybe see a new picture or two.

And,.... a 45th.... you bet. As interesting as a cruise sounds, (one of my many and varied short-term careers was as a steward on a cruise ship in Alaska) I really love coming back to Darien to see people and places that I may not have seen since the last reunion. So, for those of us from away, the location is a big draw. Doesn't mean we can't have an alumni trip separate from the reunion to some faraway location, though. (Need any suggestions?)

George Wehmann on October 27, 2009 6:15 PM

If we did a 45th in Darien, we should get the same place at Ward Pound Ridge Reservation where we had Senior Skip day. We could do egg tosses, 1 legged races, all kinds of games and competitions. Maybe during Saturday daytime?

Mark Tinker on October 28, 2009 12:13 AM

George, dude, I love ya but we're gonna be 63ish at a 45th. I won't speak for everyone but the most exercise I'm gonna wanna do then is lift a Rheingold to my mouth.

Besides, I don't think Doc's car can handle another dump into the ditch.

Jim Morrison on October 30, 2009 8:37 PM

Had a great time with "old" friends. Pound Ridge was great but riding back to Darien in Docs' car was a nightmare. At least this time we don't have to phone the whole class.
Mori

George Wehmann on October 28, 2009 2:25 PM

Hmmm. ya gotta point there. Wonder if beer is allowed in Pound Ridge?

George Wehmann on November 3, 2009 10:15 AM

Anyone know who put up a DHS class of 69 facebook page?http://www.facebook.com/home.php?#/profile.php?id=100000410876129&ref=name

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September 11, 2009

Autumn 2009

Back to work, school or home. Tell us your plans this fall. We'd like to hear from you.

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John vdH on September 12, 2009 4:22 PM

Craigbo- How about a poem about our 40th reunion?

Craigbo on September 13, 2009 8:24 AM

Hey Heuval - I'm on it. A worthy cause. Just give me some time.

Patti & Steve Craig on September 19, 2009 6:08 PM

Friendship

Friendship, good times burning bright

In the glow of Wee Burn's light

After forty years gone by

Still a twinkle in the eye.

Just a twinkle in the eye?

No, laughter, cheers in the sky

To what end did we aspire?

Did we set Wee Burn on fire?

Surely Dinny and Loren did

A blink of eye and full foot skid

Seems as though Dave Lynch did too

'Never did see his shoes.

Hey, lots of us felt that beat

Dancing in our own bare feet.

And dance we did all night long

To that back beat Motown song.

Laughing, dancing, our dominion

And that's not just my opinion

That we have special chemistry

Such a wonderous thing to see.

Special friendship, kind and deep

At the same time fun and sweet

Friendship seen in classmates eyes

A most special August prize.

Caring friendship burning bright

In both darkness and daylight

Friendship that we all grasp

Held tightly in each other's clasp.

In his memory, based on John Stringer's favorite poem.

Webmeister on September 22, 2009 10:16 PM

Well said, Steve and Patty. Well said. Thanks.

TIcket Taker on September 26, 2009 2:12 PM

The reunion was great

All the classmates we know,

But a bittersweet sadness

For those who didn’t go.

Chris Austin, Doug Baird, Johnny Audet,

Linda Castle, Marsha Bayless, how ‘bout John Dennet?

And what about Cox, Keith Clark, Calve and Cone,

Not to mention Felix Lemone?

I missed Patty Cordes and Suzanne Ferree,

Mary Grace and Anna, and Jenny Leahy

Lop, Bobby Mercer, are the names we recall,

Myers and Milek, Popov and Tim Maul.

Matt Eaton, Pete Franklin, Lane and Ladue,

These are the guys that everyone knew!

We missed them and all hope to see them again

We know that we can, we just don’t know when.

But we truly miss those who once passed this way,

Then left us for other worlds far far away.

We shared a brief moment , and then it did cease,

So we bid them adieu, may they all rest in peace.

Anahid Kavookjian on September 12, 2009 11:38 PM

Wow, sounds like the reunion was a fabulous success.
So sorry I could not be there. I have studied all the great photos that have been posted and have relished seeing so many wonderful faces from the past.
I hope the amazing organizing committee will have the energy and desire to pull this off again in 5 years.
Please contact me. I will help and I will not miss the next event.
While we were in High School, I remember one of our teachers telling me that every once in a while a class of students comes together that has great "chemistry" and he felt our class was such an example. Well, clearly he was astute.....after so many years the "chemistry" is still there. How great.
Cheers to each of you dear friends from DHS ' 69!

Sally Armus Shutts on September 19, 2009 10:05 AM

Heuvel on September 21, 2009 1:05 PM

Sally- I love that idea. A cruise for the 45th. Let's look into it.

George Wehmann on September 20, 2009 1:06 PM

A major deadline prevented it.
But now that's over.
Now it's time to edit and upload it.
The movie version.
Coming soon to a monitor near YOU.

Mardie Porter on October 3, 2009 2:48 PM

Fall is definitely happening here. Trees are changing color, I'm back at school, new students, new staff. Mark put a new roof on our house (we had to wait 'til the rain stopped this summer). Since we had our first frost on September 20th, we've been eating lots of peppers, corn, eggplant, zucchini, cucumbers, and freezing broccoli, beans... well..... I guess you get the idea, our life revolves around eating!!! Anyway, it really meant a lot to connect with so many folks from high school. If anyone wants to help us eat some stuff, (200 pounds of potatoes, 25 pounds of onions, 90 heads of garlic...) come on up!

Patti & Steve Craig on October 12, 2009 4:38 PM

Fall has arrived here in northwest CT also. Last night we had our first hard frost so the leaves are turning and we are scrambling to get all our apples in berfore the deer rip the limbs down. Anyone on their way to Mardie's for vegies can stop here on the way and we'll load you up with fresh apples. Hope you are enjoying this great weather!

Heuvel on November 16, 2009 5:04 PM

Enjoyed getting together with Craigbo and Patti and Sue Venarde over lunch. Great to hear news about friends. Sue is a guide at the Philip Johnson Glass House in New Canaan and some of us were planning to tour it. Oh yea, and for lunch Steve had the Bass with a poached Eng .....

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August 18, 2009

More Comments on the Reunion

We've already received many comments on our reunion week-end. Let's hear from you.

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Dennis Sullivan on August 19, 2009 10:10 AM

Others have provided comments in the last few days; nonetheless, let me add: THANK YOU, THANK YOU, THANK YOU... to the Reunion Committee for their wonderful work, to all who came to the reunion, to all I danced with (and to those I didn't... and an apology or five to them feet I may have stepped on in the process)... for a truly delightful time. A blessing to those who could not attend; just start to mark in your calendar for 2014!!!

I only regret not having more time to connect with more attendees.

Jim Valente on August 19, 2009 10:12 AM

I just wanted to add my thanks to the reunion committee for putting on what had to be one of the best weekends I've had in quite a while.

It was great to see everyone and re-live events that took place over 40 years ago; and to get caught up on what's changed since.

I too was very sad when it all ended. It didn't seem like 3 days to me.

There really is a spirit to this class that just bonded everyone together. And where the hell does Loren Rogers get all here energy from???

I hope we do a 45th, and if so, I would like to help. Please keep me in mind!

Thanks again!

Carol Ann Augustus Summers on August 21, 2009 8:23 AM

Dear Jimmy & Cindy, it is always so great to see you guys. Would you send me an e-mail of the gas station picture and the Baker School picture? I must admit I shed a little tear as the plane was taking off. We have to keep having these events because they are so much fun.

xxoo Carol Ann

Bev on August 21, 2009 7:27 PM

Hey - sat down to email you and couldn't find your email address - I have two of them but I think they're old....

Heuvel on August 19, 2009 10:13 AM

Thank you for the kind remarks for the committee. I must say the best compliment I heard was when someone said they were glad they came. Kudos to all the classmates who made such an effort to attend.

George Wehmann on August 19, 2009 6:11 PM

John, the site made a BIG difference and still does. Websites in 99 were nothing like now. I understand site is "paid for" 3 years? Hope it keeps going and we use it to stay connected. Regret I don't live in CT to help with a 45th since 10 yrs is TOO LONG to wait. If I can help with the site, lemme know. THANK YOU.

Mardie Porter on August 19, 2009 1:20 PM

WOW!!! It was a fantastic three days. Well, actually, I stretched it to five days by going down on Thursday night, spending the night with friends (thanks Pat and Steve), visiting people all day Friday from my old neighborhood, going to the weekend events, then staying over to Monday, visiting more friends and family then finally back home Monday night. Needless to say (but I will say it anyway) a huge thanks goes out to all the organizers. It seemed seamless to those of us attending. I hope you have recovered enough that you won't be shocked at all the requests for a 45th and a 50th reunion. And, yes, since we are a healthy lot, we should be able to dance like that at the 50th. I loved the opportunities we had to connect with people we may not have had the chance to get to know in high school. New friends!

ANY OF YOU OUT THERE WHO HAVEN'T FILLED OUT YOUR INFO ON: CLASS UPDATE, CLICK ON IT RIGHT NOW AND FILL IT OUT.

That will help with the "directory" project.

Bev on August 21, 2009 7:26 PM

Many thanks to the committee for their time, persistance, agonizing, etc. to get all of the reunion activities together.

It was great seeing everyone - I'm a little better on names and faces than I had anticipated.

George - where are the pictures posted?

Meri - please don't forget to give Pennie my email address.

See you at the next reunion, if not sooner.

Bev on August 21, 2009 8:22 PM

Meri - forget that request.....must be smokin' crack again or getting old. I meant that for Janet.

George Wehmann on August 23, 2009 11:40 AM

Bev, Lotta pictures posted here in DHS site. See Photo Album link. Also photos in Facebook http://www.facebook.com/home.php?#/album.php?aid=33993&id=1190005194

Meri Bjork on August 23, 2009 7:06 AM

no prob., Bev, I'm used to combing my brain for info. I don't understand! I did pass your message along to my Mom re: Jamie's visit to Home Ec. She remembers the event and you. Anything to do with Darien is still front and center in her mind and Fitch Ave. is a HUGE part of our history. It was great seeing you and everyone. I'm still buzzing from the whole weekend. Kisses...

George Wehmann on August 23, 2009 8:00 PM

Our reunion pictures keep bringing tears to my eyes. Yeah, I took some, but so many others too. A professional photographer could NEVER have captured those moments, those impressions, those memories. We ARE a unique group. We've never lost love for one another. Amazing. We welcomed all so much. Karen keeps mentioning that to Raleigh friends. We even caught Doc Ettele off guard at Weed Sunday. I've talked about so many or you all my life. I suspect you all have too.

Heuvel on August 24, 2009 3:43 PM

I really had a great time seeing everyone. How great are these classmates?! I never did catch the end of Gary Gibb's story about departing Nantucket for Woodstock. I keep thinking of the words by CSN&Y "...by the time we got to Woodstock, we were a half a million strong..."

Webmeister on August 27, 2009 3:47 PM

Here are some additional comments you might have missed:

Christine Eng Leventhal on August 15, 2009 9:08 AM

Last night was a blast....you guys are so dear. Woodstock....saw me standing in the doorway of the Handcraft Shop in Goodwives (I couldn't get off...should have quit) ...as Billy McNicol and Larry Reilly drove away without me!

Meri Hock on August 16, 2009 9:52 PM

What a spectac. time. You are such wonderful people and it was such a kick seeing everyone. Morgan, you were sorely missed, but there's always the next one, so git yer dancin' shoes polished and make ready! George W. and George F., where the heck are those pics? I want to see the evidence!

Much love to all on the committee who did such an incredible job. You are too cool for school!

Mark Tinker on August 16, 2009 10:27 PM

From 35,000 ft., headed back to Cali, a giant thank you and huge kudos to the Reunion Committee. You guys did a fantastic job setting up and executing a fabulous event for all of us lucky enough to attend. OK, we're older, heavier and wrinklier than when we took a powder from DHS but the spirit and essence of our class remains. It was great to reconnect with those not often seen and find out what mysteries have been unlocked in the intervening years. 3000 miles was not too far for this old fart to travel for a weekend with old and renewed friends who are the same as family.

I'll ask a silly (?) question -- do we dare have a 50th?

Thanks everyone.

Steve Morgan on August 16, 2009 10:32 PM

I was thinking about you guys all weekend. I think I looked at George's photographs about 20 times. I wish I coulda been there, just thinkin about y'all and Darien brought back a flood of memories.

Yes, more pictures, please! Any videos? Stories???!!! Dirt, gossip, anything??!!! C'mon, we're 58 now, we can make complete fools of ourselves and no one cares nor remembers. Actually, come to think of it, that would've also applied at 18, 28, 38, and 48.

Susan Venarde Mahoney on August 17, 2009 7:21 AM

I want to add my sincere thanks, as well, to the hard-working and fun reunion committee. When you were not running the show, I hope you had as much fun as the rest of us! Why wait another 10 years? Let's try for # 45 and hope that others who could not attend this reunion could make the return trip in five years; maybe we can redo this weekend's events...hard to improve on the perfect reunion made especially joyful by all the spirited '69 classmates who were able to make the journey.

Peter White on August 17, 2009 8:38 AM

What a wonderful, happy event! I was truly sorry when it ended. Time hasn't changed the amazing chemistry of our class. Thanks so much to the reunion committee for realizing this vision of high spirits, congeniality and humor. Just like that other famous gathering in 1969, it was 3 days of nothing but fun and music!

Christine Eng Leventhal on August 17, 2009 8:57 AM

I want to echo what everyone else has said....it was a wonderful weekend....would love to do it again too. Thank you all so much - LOL p.s. you can always reach me at DHS!

Anne Irvine on August 17, 2009 9:45 AM

I approached the reunion with a bit of trepidation as I had lost contact with just about everyone in our class. Honestly, my memories weren't all good; however, I can now honestly say I am so glad I went - it was really fun and I enjoyed every moment of it. Thanks so much to those of you who put the flawless event together. I enjoyed re-meeting all of you and, in some cases, even making new friends! Is there any sort of classmate directory planned so we can stay in touch with folks - I guess that might be asking for a lot given the great work already accomplished but it sure would be a nice tool and reminder of all those friends we had and/or made! Thanks again for putting the entire weekend together - it was really a blast from the past!

Janet Martin Fisher on August 17, 2009 1:33 PM

To repeat what has already been said, what a perfect weekend - the committee even worked their magic on the weather. Such fun catching up with people and even talking to people I never spoke to while I was in High School! A true sign of perfection is when you leave wishing there was more, which I did. Thank you Lauren, Josie, Jenny, Chris, Ed, John, Tim and Jamila, Todd and Martha, and Steve and Nancy – you are the BEST.

George Wehmann on August 17, 2009 10:28 PM

So sorry I missed past reunions. Hard to describe - like a time warp. Suddenly high school friends all together like years ago. Junior high... even elementary school. Too many friends, not enough time. Jungle of people at Nielsens. Humid dusk overlooking Wee Burn golf course. Will we dance like that at age 68? Last day at Weed beach came and over too soon. Back at home. Did it all happen? Pictures in website Photo Albums. Mine, yours, all of ours. Videos later. Memories like these only once?

Carol Ann Augustus Summers on August 18, 2009 7:55 AM

Just to add my 2 cents, thank you, thank you, thank you for all your hard work. I had such a great time and even shed a couple of tears on the plane on the way home. A great place to grow up, a great class to be a part of. The camaraderie, even after all these years, is special.

Randy Lunn on August 29, 2009 1:40 AM

Wonderful to see everyone! No matter how far we travel or how many new people we meet there is something special and deeply ingrained that we all share as members of the Class of '69. It was fun to catch up and renew that spirit. Many thanks to all the organizers and everyone who came. Best to All!

Dennis Sullivan on August 31, 2009 1:12 AM

Hey! I couldn't dance like that without a lotta practice! 'Tis easy though. All ya gotta do is lick your finger and stick it in an electrical outlet!!!!

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July 2, 2009

Summer Sequel II

Forty years after graduation and we have the tapes to prove it! What's going on? We want to know.

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Webmeister on July 2, 2009 11:25 AM

We just posted the audio tapes of our graduation! Who would have thought of such madness??? Bless their hearts, Mardie Porter's family taped the broadcast. Go to Classmate News on this website and hear it for yourself.

Webmeister on July 8, 2009 4:51 PM

Someone asked if people would send in pictures of their high school wheels

Jenny B on July 13, 2009 2:11 PM

OMG, Mardi, that's very cool... no pic of mine.. black Corvair, stick, red interior... listed as one of the most dangerous cars of the time... but I loved it.

Mardie Porter on July 13, 2009 3:57 PM

check out this website.... maybe a photo for you
http://www.seriouswheels.com/pics-1960-1969/1964-Chevrolet-Corvair-Convertible-b-r-fa-sy.jpg

Mardie Porter on July 13, 2009 4:01 PM

Or this one for more Corvair pix
http://tidewatercorvairs.tripod.com/cars.html

Captain Hook on July 10, 2009 8:18 PM

Shiver me timbers! Steve Craig, that son of a biscuit eater - is he talking about buried treasure chests? Where did that landlubber put his buried chest? eeeerr

Webmeister on July 30, 2009 8:05 PM

Captain Hook- Just received an article "Raise the Flag, Light the Flares Around the Tomb" explaining what went down at Weed Beach in 1969. I guess the cops showed up- check out the article in the Photo Albums section under Pranks.....

Tinkerbell on August 2, 2009 8:46 AM

Captain - that's such a crock (Oops. Sorry, I know how touchy you are about crocs). The point is, what's buried is far more than the treasure of one biscuit maker's son. Consider this .....

Whose beach is this, the Sound so near?
I wonder why we're stopping here.
Funny that I don't recall
A tree where now one stands so tall.

Without its limbs, so straight and bare,
Encircled by a ring of flares.
The moistened sand suggests a hole
Has just been dug around this pole.

But why dig here when others sleep?
Perchance to bury something deep.
A legacy to leave behind
Of who they were in '69.

Black cons, a frisbee broke in two,
A photo with a nail pierced through.
Stuff from chests and closet shelves,
Bits and pieces of themselves.

Set inside a wooden tomb
And nestled in a sandy womb.
To sleep for forty years or more,
While they wait for Lopriore.
While they wait for Lopriore.

Dick Costello on August 9, 2009 8:06 PM

Tink, I need a copy of this framed....an instant classic. Mrs. Marshall would be proud of you.

Mark Tinker on August 10, 2009 12:46 PM

Cos, just saw your request. I took enough of a beating growing up with my dopey name, do you really think I'd use the handle Tinkerbell?

Dick Costello on August 10, 2009 8:16 PM

Rog....shoot me. WTFO? Who's the mystery poet?

Cap'n Hook on August 12, 2009 9:25 AM

Matey- yo's been working the Tuna Boat too long. Its that biscuit-eating land-lubbing Craigbo or indeed, might we have an English scholar schooled in the immortal poetry of Robert Frost?

Mark Tinker on August 12, 2009 2:33 PM

(With apologies to Rob't. Frost)

...Whose words are these? I think I don't know........

Robert Frost on August 14, 2009 11:23 AM

Not a problem! - Robert "Bob" Frost

Patti Craig on July 14, 2009 8:23 PM

Hey Mardi, Did you just see who is coming? 'Skins' ,another of our Peeps. How cool is that? Our Holmes School buds, you, me, Meg, Lisa, Kathy (Bones). 'Skins, you hearin' this honey?

Mardie Porter on July 16, 2009 8:03 AM

Yeah, I was excited to see some more of the Holmes School crowd. Hi to Kathy Strachan! Hey everyone, please enter your info on the "Class Update" section so people can see you and get in touch. The reunion weekend will be too short if you wait to do all of your catching up there.

Patti, I love your photo, by the way...

Mardie Porter on July 19, 2009 2:49 PM

Hey Patti, was that you who posted the Holmes school picture? The person named "Alice" is Alice Insinger (she had a twin sister, Louise) and Betty in the back row is Betty Ann Matlak. You did well to name the others. Oh yeah, I think it's Kathy Sunkel, or something like that, in the back row.

Patti Craig on July 20, 2009 2:34 PM

Hi Mardie,
Yes, that was me. It seems as though, I keep finding more and more pix. It is amazing that they are in such good shape. Thanks for your help with names. Trying to remember Alice's last name was driving me crazy. I could remember her twin, Louise (Loukie) but the last name was not coming to me. They were from Holland weren't they? Chris Eng would know. Might Kathy 'Sunkel' be Kathy Kunkel?

steve verses on July 20, 2009 8:56 PM

To whoever posted those pics from the Middlesex days, great job, they are priceless...keep them coming...and thanks!

Mardie Porter on July 23, 2009 5:51 PM

Love the "Miss Morrier" picture from Holmes School. Some of the names missing are: Lisa Howell, Susan Smith, Alice Insinger, I think it's Bill Guptill, and the back row on the right is Richard Watson?. That's all I can think of right now....

Reunion Committee on July 29, 2009 3:36 PM

Hope everyone is getting ready to have a great time! Get those checks in if you haven't done so and polish up your dancing shoes!

Christine Eng Leventhal on August 2, 2009 8:41 AM

As part of the Holmes school gang, I had to jump in....Alice and Loukie Insinger were two of my best friends....yes, they were twins from Holland, and lived in the apartments at the corner of West and Holmes. Can't wait to see all of you...it's about time Skins got her stuff in!!! Remember Anthony and Rusty and the guys being hot rods in the halls? Mr. Gardiner?

Patti Craig on August 2, 2009 12:41 PM

Hi Chris,

'Great to hear from another Holmes School alum and thanks for the info on the Insinger twins, Alice and Loukie.
I sure do remember Anthony and Rusty et..al...revving up and down the halls. Remember their signiture call "too weak, too weak"?

Christine Leventhal on August 2, 2009 9:50 PM

I do...but I liked the screaming brakes the best

Jenny Bates on August 4, 2009 11:36 AM

... and the thumbtacks under there shoes so you could hear them coming down the hall....

Webmeister on August 3, 2009 10:56 AM

We just received an amazing photo!
The senior pranksters caught in flagrante delicto!

Check it out
www.darienhigh69.com/photoalbum/6-6.htm

(in the photo albums under pranks, towers...)

skins strachan on August 5, 2009 9:19 PM

alright all of you raggin on skins....its me...you know i never did my homework...just gettin around to this stuff...cant belive the people coming - such a blast from the past...looking forward to seeing everyone - especially the Holmes School crowd !
i will try to do the update thing - but if i dont get to it i live in Fairfield, Ct by the beach - one cat, one dog both rescued and spoiled.
skins

Christine Leventhal on August 5, 2009 10:10 PM

Skins!!! Miss you!!! I still have a picture of my birthday party with you and Loukie and Alice....all of us with our paper plate birthday hats on....remember your mother catching us shaving our legs for the first time in your bathtub....she was p'od....Chickie (Mrs. Ludwig's....)

steve verses on August 7, 2009 6:53 AM

I thought you lived in Bridgeport.....

skins strachan on August 6, 2009 4:41 PM

LOL Chickie Eng - yes i remember us shaving our legs what grade was that 5th???? I haven't shaved them since.....kidding!
see you next week.
skins

Meri Bjork on August 13, 2009 7:37 AM

Yeeee-haaaa, one more day of hard labor in someone else's dirt and weeds, then it's hit the highway! Can't wait to see you all...

Steve Morgan on August 14, 2009 10:40 PM

Woodstock began 40 years ago tomorrow (Aug 15)!

I was living in Manhattan at the time, sharing an apartment with 4 girls I knew from a nearby prep school. We met the promoters at a record store one day in NYC, and they offered us jobs collecting tickets LOL. I arrived with my friend Doug Sloan, who was from NYC, 8 hours late, the fences were already down. We were supposed to get room and board so only arrived with the clothes on our backs. I remember sleeping under a plastic sheet that first night with about 30 other people after a wild night... I think I'll stop there...

Steve Morgan on August 15, 2009 4:50 AM

Tinker, I always knew you were behind the Wall of Sound. But you've shrunk! I hear that happens with old age.

I recently found a picture of you at one of my birthday parties as a kid. I found a couple with Tom Green (RIP) and David Bracken (WTF happened to him?) as well.

I'm still looking for some Tokeneke School class pictures, I know I have them around here somewhere...oh well, early onset..

Christine Eng Leventhal on August 15, 2009 9:08 AM

George Wehmann on August 15, 2009 12:28 PM

Too bad we didn't designate a general hang out for daytime Saturday, like Post Corner Pizza. 120 alumni in town daytime Sat and no way to connect. Bummer.

Meri Hock on August 16, 2009 9:52 PM

Steve Morgan on August 17, 2009 12:35 PM

Meri, I really wanted to see you, it's been far too long. Potts keeps me up to date on what you're up to, from time to time. I'll retread my dancin shoes, hoping for a 45th!

Mark Tinker on August 16, 2009 10:27 PM

George Wehmann on August 17, 2009 9:17 PM

A 50th? We'll be like ELDERLY. Activities? Hmmm. Walker races? Suggestions?

Steve Morgan on August 16, 2009 10:32 PM

I was thinking about you guys all weekend. I think I looked at George's photographs about 20 times. I wish I coulda been there, just thinkin about y'all and Darien brought back a flood of memories.

Yes, more pictures, please! Any videos? Stories???!!! Dirt, gossip, anything??!!! C'mon, we're 58 now, we can make complete fools of ourselves and no one cares nor remembers. Actually, come to think of it, that would've also applied at 18, 28, 38, and 48.

Steve Morgan on August 16, 2009 10:46 PM

There were wrinkles?! Ewwww...

Susan Venarde Mahoney on August 17, 2009 7:21 AM

Peter White on August 17, 2009 8:38 AM

Christine Eng Leventhal on August 17, 2009 8:57 AM

I want to echo what everyone else has said....it was a wonderful weekend....would love to do it again too. Thank you all so much - LOL p.s. you can always reach me at DHS!

Anne Irvine on August 17, 2009 9:45 AM

Janet Martin Fisher on August 17, 2009 1:33 PM

Jim Valente on August 17, 2009 5:09 PM

Meri Bjork on August 17, 2009 9:44 PM

Hey, Steve, we went to the Sugar Bowl for lunch on Sat. and afterwards we took new pics of us all where we'd been in the first shot as underclassmen: it was too funny and so much fun. Remember that perfectly beautiful day when we were just being ourselves hanging out? There'll be many more pictures to follow, I'm sure, but it was the happiest weekend I can remember in a very long time. There is this unexplainable bond that is built in to all of our hearts, crafted with trust and heartfelt goodness. I will always be grateful for the experience of growing in such blessed company. All the names are still carved in the bricks and there are some new additions as well. Be well, all.
With much love,

Meri (back in steamy Vermont)

George Wehmann on August 17, 2009 10:28 PM

Carol Ann Augustus Summers on August 18, 2009 7:55 AM

Cindy Valente on August 18, 2009 10:43 AM

Carol Ann,

Let me know what your Dad thinks of the "Flying A" team picture.

It was a great time. Thanks to all for making it a fantastic weekend!

Cindy Peterson Valente

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June 1, 2009

Summertime!

Forty years ago was the summer of Ted Kennedy's accident, Woodstock, and a man on the moon. How are you doing? We want to hear from you

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Steve Craig on May 31, 2009 11:09 AM

A wee bit O' verse to jog our collective memory....

I'm trying hard to remember.
Was it Spring or in November?
When late at night, without detection,
A pool was built in the Intersection.
Where once we walked from class to class,
There was a pond, with trout and bass.
So now my classmates, I must ask,
Who performed this daring task?

Pat McGroin on June 1, 2009 7:23 PM

MX !!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Steve Craig on June 5, 2009 9:27 AM

Gee, Pat. While I clearly remember your brother Scott (of course, back then we all called him Scratch), I don't remember you. Perhaps you were Scott's younger sibling, maybe a sophomore or junior in '69? Anyway, before I can accept your answer to the riddle of The Pool, I must have more evidence of your knowledge of the alleged perp. So, go to the photo albums, look for a recent addition, and "name that tower." Hint: it's not where we'll be dining in August.
Anyone out there want to help Pat with this one? Hello Woody? Hello Lope? Hello Newark?

Heuvel on June 5, 2009 10:46 AM

Craigbo- Looks like the Garner Correctional Facility in Newton!

Steve Craig on June 5, 2009 12:03 PM

Sorry Heuval - it's closer to home. Is there a reason why you're so familiar with the Garner Correctional Facility?

Lope on August 21, 2009 9:35 PM

Craigbo, Nice poem, you bring the shovels and I'll help with the dig. Just don't plan it for november thats when my other daughter is getting married. Here's something no one has mentioned. The Bike Hike our junior year. Costello probably remembers, he took a header on the way. Lynch should also remember it because we skipped baseball practice to go and coach Nelson benched me, Costello and Lynch for one game. I wonder if anyone has any pictures.

Mike Lopriore on June 20, 2009 9:53 PM

Craigbo - Does this sound familiar? Good morning Mr. Craig, the picture you are looking at is the tower at the Cero Copper and Brass works. Your mission Steve should you decide to accept it is to enter the facility undetected, climb the tower and leave the mark of the federation. As always if you or any of your team are caught our parents will deny any knowledge of our actions.
Good luck Mr. Craig.

Craigbo on June 22, 2009 9:24 AM

Yes Lope, very familiar. As I recall, each guy had his own dossier of background material for the mission. What a caper that was! I understand your schedule conflict with daughter's wedding, but we'll miss you in August. Chucking the friz won't be the same without you. I've started to think about possibly excavating "the tomb." I remember what you put in the tomb and I remember what I added. Do you think Stello remembers what his contribution was?

Dick Costello on June 28, 2009 11:29 AM

Of course I remember, but I cannot divulge classified data in an open forum.

Ed Tyler on June 5, 2009 1:49 PM

Ah yes, Mr. Craig. The swimming pool caper. Of course we all knew you were out of town with the cross country team...

Ed Tyler on June 5, 2009 2:14 PM

Its raining with a vengeance today, so rather than paint houses I have hooked up my new analog converter box. I'm too cheap to buy one those new fangled HD TVs and besides, the antenna on my house still works great! Looks great too and the neighbors just love it.
Wow! I'm getting six more new stations. Cool. All in Spanish. Que lastima!

Van den Huevel must have been at Chappaquiddick forty years ago. Thats why he knows all about correctional facilities...

Heuvel on June 5, 2009 7:55 PM

No-I showed up at the 25th without a ticket and Potts called the cops. Busted for Reunion crashing!

Mardie Porter on June 6, 2009 6:23 AM

Hey, what's all this I hear about digital TV? Up here in Maine, we have been getting about 7 stations with our antenna... analog-type. So, we, too, are cheap and decided to get the converter box hooked up. With the promise of more stations, clear picture.... we were so excited. Then, we turned it on... scanning.... looking for stations..... AH-HA.. there it is! Now we have ONE station. Oh well, thank goodness for Hulu and Joost.

Patti Craig on June 6, 2009 4:19 PM

Hey Mardie,

knock, knock...

Mardie Porter on June 6, 2009 6:43 PM

Who's there?

Patti Craig (Shaw) on June 6, 2009 8:06 PM

Sam and Janet

Mardie Porter on June 7, 2009 5:59 AM

Sam and Janet Who?

Patti Craig on June 7, 2009 11:14 AM

Uh...Hum....me,me,me,me....

Sam and Janet Evening
When you find your true love
When you her her call you
across a crowed room.....................La la la

(South Pacific)

Mardie Porter on June 7, 2009 3:50 PM

AHHHH... I could always count on you for jokes!

Patti Craig on June 9, 2009 1:44 PM

he..hee...hee...

Pat McGroin on June 5, 2009 7:22 PM

Early Alzheimer's is a bitch so things are a little hazy from that long ago but is Glenbrook in the vicinity? I've been pretty drunk for the last 40 years so if I'm off couldja cut a brother some slack?

Steve Craig on June 6, 2009 8:18 PM

OK Pat, I don't think you have to worry about early onset AD. Technically speaking, the tower in question (Cerro Copper & Brass) was just up the road in Springdale, so I'm gonna give you this one. Funny thing is, there was a second tower that indeed was in Glenbrook. I don't have a picture of this one (as Ed said, I must have been at an away track meet). Are you ready? Here we go. Four words.

First word: first name of our DHS head librarian.
Second word: what we got in kindergarten every afternoon for 3 cents.
Third word: rhymes with love.
Fourth word - first syllable: type of wheel on Mark Tinker's 442.

Well Pat, if you haven't got it by now, you get one week of detention with Dr. Haller.

Pat McGroin on June 6, 2009 9:26 PM

Nice, Stevie Boy!!! Philips Milk of Magnesia. Very impressive set of clues the result of which jogged my flagging memory and presented me with a visual flash much like the ones induced by foreign substances in the 60's of which some of us were foolish enough to partake.
Here's an easy one -- home of the Spit Pit -- Middlesex or Mather? I know it's too simple but I'm only trying to invoke the good ol' days.

Steve Craig on June 7, 2009 7:31 AM

I'd say Middlesex - outside the gym.
Keep the trivia coming. As Hercule Poirot would say. it's good for the little gray cells.

Pat McGroin on June 7, 2009 12:01 PM

Senior year. The DHS Track Team takes a victorious lap of Darien celebrating another undefeated season. A quick stop at the Grand Union to pick up soda but oops, those were the days of no pull tabs on the cheapo off brands and they have no church key. However did that parched group of speedsters open those cans to slake their epic thirst?

Steve Craig on June 8, 2009 9:28 AM

Man - I'm drawing a big blank on this one. I don't suppose I could use the excuse of being out of town at a track meet. So, recalling the resourcefullness of my teamates, let me offer a few theories.
a) We dragged Eric Sibelius' discus around the parking lot a few times until its edge, honed to razor sharpness, could be used to decapitate the cans.
b) We used our running spikes (remember those God awful 3/4" mini daggers on our Adidas shoes?) to perforate the can tops.
c) We used Bill Wright's javelin tip to puncture the can tops.
d) We arranged the cans on set of cafeteria trays, originally borrowed for use as flying saucers for winter sliding, pummeled them with Geo's shot put and lapped up the effluent like a pack of thirsty dogs.

Pat McGroin on June 8, 2009 10:02 PM

To paraphrase Meatloaf, one out of four ain't bad. May not get you in the Hall of Fame but "c" is correct.

Here's another easy one.

Name the degenerate for whom the class presidency ballot box was stuffed. Once the faculty sniffed voter fraud and made us re-do the election this unlikely leader drifted into obscurity. And Vahsen's.

Steve Craig on June 9, 2009 6:09 PM

Well, first of all, the javelin idea was pulled out of my ass. Ouch!
And for your last bit of trivia, that would have been one David "Doc" Ettele. I can still remember him campaigning, sitting up on the back seat of someone's convertible. Whose car was it?

And what's up with taking a leak on the fence behind Ed Higgins? (see latest pix)

The McGroin Boy on June 9, 2009 9:39 PM

Firstly, that Corvair (which was unsafe at any speed, especially in the hands of it's primary driver) belonged to George "E" Cone.
And B, that isn't moi unleashing the falcon behind accused perv Ed. Higgins and I've no clue as to the reliever. More to the point, what's the point of trying to piss on chain link as 99% of el streamo is NOT stopped by the fence? Just go for the grass.

Pat McGroin on June 15, 2009 3:47 PM

Upon further inspection of the photo in the Snapshots section showing David "Doc" Ettele campaigning for class presidency I've observed that it appears Casey Nickerson is driving the Corvair. I don't recall if that's his car or not but I think it was and that George "E's" car was a newer model. Sorry for any unintended defamation of parade drivers or ballot box stuffers.

Heuvel on June 16, 2009 10:45 AM

Pat- It looks like a '65 Corvair. I guess we can run the plates (FE 3296). It also looks like an Olds 442 and then a Valiant behind it. Any idea whose cars those were? I thought Casey had a VW bus.

Still laughiing on June 7, 2009 12:36 PM

Funniest memory from Middlesex- When a dog took a hellacious crap right outside Kronweiter's classroom and he thought a student had farted!

Patti Craig on June 9, 2009 2:07 PM

OK...so come on buds. Who is Goody? She is sitting right in front of us in the latest posted pictures. Was she 'born' at Penny Page's slumber party? Or was it at Ann Back's? Ooo...ooo...maybe she came to us fully grown from the Gods....a Goddess. How divine.
Not so,
PC

Jenny Bates on June 10, 2009 6:43 AM

"Goody" got the nickname when she and Barbara Nehms got thrown out of US History class (did they really throw 17 yr. olds out in the hall?) (yes, they did) for uncontrollable laughter while watching 'The Crucible' on TV... "Goodwife Smith was called Goody Smith"... whatever... they thought it was amusing... or maybe they were just bored stiff... love that photo.. looks like a smoking party... those were the days..

Dennis Sullivan on June 11, 2009 6:07 PM

A bit of a segue here!. My brother, Kenneth (Class of '67) is coming for a visit. Unfortunately for him, he only spent his senior year at DHS (after 14 years in Southern California). How well any of you may or may not remember him...? Well, check out the 1967 Dariannus year book. He was one of the only 8 of us on the 1966-67 Cross Country team (though we exploded, in numbers and talent over the next two years due to Doug Wood, Mike Fahey, Steve Craig, Steve Rodeman and many others: a precious memory in my psyche).

He's lived in Australia since 1974, got married in 1976, raised two fine children, and after 25 miserable years working for IBM, retired in 2004. He is such an incredibly happy man since retirement. He and Carolyn (his wife of 33 years) live a very simple but satisfying life two hours south of Sydney in a rural area on a five acre plot. It may not have been my choice... but I cannot help but to envy him greatly.

So, since he and I are gonna visit my mother in Kennett Square, PA after the reunion (for her 87th birthday on Aug 21) before a slow sojourn back to Chicago.

Regarding the reunion, I insisted Ken to join me; we'll have a heck of a time (though no slow dances between us, mind you... family or not!).

I've recently found a fantastic place to live in Chicago (Eugenie Terrace on the Park, 1730 N. Clark (#2903), Chicago IL, 60614). The next three weeks will be hectic getting outta the house and moving... but what the heck... conservative and resistant to change as I am, this is a necessary transition. More better days ahead (even, unfortunately, without a modicum of D,S and R&R to facilitate any of it). Then again, as many others have expressed on this blog site, my memory is not as stellar as it used to be. Eh bien, c'est la vie!

Anne Irvine on June 11, 2009 6:23 PM

Hey Patti, guess who I just heard from after all these years - Tigger (wonder if he still goes by that!) He says he was just looking at a swim club photo! I was so surprised to hear from him!

Patti Craigpscraig4@sbcglobal.net on June 12, 2009 11:21 AM

That is amazing! We were just wondering about him. How is Tigger doing? Is he living locally? Is he coming to the reunion? He is a person that I really miss. After all those summers, every day at the swim club...plus his locker was always right next to mine: Shaw..Smith. So I saw him several times a day every day for years. I remember the day that his mother had all his moles BURNED off in one doctors visit. Poor kid. He looked like a burn victim.

PS...Hey Webmeister, can I give Anne my e-mail address on the blog. I'd like to chat more off blog. How can I reach her?

Patti Craigpscraig4@sbcglobal.net on June 12, 2009 4:57 PM

Sorry John, dumb question.

Webmeister on June 12, 2009 10:04 PM

* Tigger Smith is George Wesley Smith IV, who went to Middlesex and the high school up until about 1/2 way thru our senior year when he moved to Detroit. He is/was a super swimmer, too. Seems he's still making a splash!

Anne Irvine on June 16, 2009 3:13 PM

Patti, I sent the email string I received from Tigger to, what I think is, your email address, from what I could see on the blog. Hope it gets there.

Mardie Porter on June 14, 2009 5:57 PM

So, I have to admit, I love the "play who's that?" photo on the photo albums page. Thanks, whoever put that one up. How about some hints, like..... when was it taken? Where was it taken? what was the event?

steve verses on June 15, 2009 8:06 AM

Mardie, it was taken 3 or 4 years ago at Tim Potts' home in Westport. The occasion was a memorial for Tom Monti...and that event was the genesis of the 40th reunion....

Dave Terry on June 16, 2009 4:11 PM

Well, I do know that I had master keys to the school from 1967 until graduation. I know there were several ladies who went to dinner with me on Friday Nights at "The Intersection". Don't know how anyone could have gotten into the school to build that wall and then get all that water in there.. Wow.. A long time, ago...

Jennifer Bates on June 17, 2009 3:49 PM

Gosh... dinner in the intersection... what did you serve, Terry?

Steve Craig on June 20, 2009 6:56 AM

Well Goody, since it doesn't seem like Dave is going to answer your question, let me take a crack at the menu for "A Dinner in the Intersection."
I'd be willing to bet that the whole affair was catered by Pat McGroin and his brother. Believe it or not, with their parents out of town so often, the boys really learned how to cook... spent lots of time tinkering in the kitchen. I'd guess that they started the evening out with cocktails: a Peter Popov vodka tonic, or a few bottles of Dr. Harper's lager, maybe even a couple of Janet Martinis. Then a salad course - fresh Debbie Greenes topped with Tish Barrys. Very healthy, but then Dave was always conscious of his wrestling weight. For the main course, my first thought was poached Mary's Bass. But then again, perhaps Dave sought to impress, threw his weight watching to the wind and ordered Mardie's Porter house steak, with Jay's Bakers and sour cream, some of Mr. Hubbard's squash and Del Mautte stewed tomatoes, artfully served in Kate's Mason jars (presentation is so important). Lord, I'm gettin' full - gotta save room for dessert. There were several choices for Dave and his hallway hottie: a plate of Mrs. Clark's bars, some of Vic's Crumpets, maybe even a slice or two of Joan's Irish soda bread. I'm stuffed. Man those McGroins could really dish it out, don't ya think?.

Heuvel on June 22, 2009 9:10 AM

Steve-o, Very clever but I think you have the wrong menu. A regular guy like Dave T. wants Pizza- Mazzarella topped with Bink Bell peppers and popIerardi. For drinks, maybe Jack, or Ballentine beer. If not Bier, an inexpensive Pete White wine or maybe a nice Clarendon. For dessert- they could go out to g(e)orge on a Cone from Baskin-Todd Robbins. THe one question I have- does Dave bring a Matt to Eaton?

Patti Craig on June 22, 2009 3:37 PM

Beth Shaw told me that Sue Danver told her that the dining Festa was either Barbara's flame broiled Burgers or Beef Stu' Traver served with green Stringer beans, Fenichelled peas and Wise ass potato Skins. Follwed by a nice hot cup of Ettele Tea and maybe a gummy Baird or two.......Does red Clarendon go with that, John?

jenny bates on June 23, 2009 12:47 PM

Before eating, I heard they smoked a Joynt ...and were Mullen what to do next... since the food was Ferree, they decided to chow down, give Back rubs... and drink Frasca. Dave had brought his favorite "Gerber' peas and carrots..

Jacques Pepin on June 23, 2009 6:08 PM

Bonjour mes amis. Jacques Pepin ici. Qeusque c'est this pool-side bistro, eh? This Intersectione Diner. Mon Dieu, it sounds tres chic. I would like to taste their rack of Lamberton with apple Snyder sauce, barbequed baby Back Gibbs, or their seafood medley Toddfish filet and Skip Scampi over fresh Stramaglia. Ah, mais oui, le specialite de la maison corned beef Dasher topped with Poccia-d quail Engs. Apres? Jelly Benny beans. Reservation por deux, s'il vous plait.

Louie Gasconne de la Mer on June 23, 2009 11:15 PM

The Intersection Diner ***** $
Yes, yes, yes....the McGroins have done it again with their latest eatery, the Intersection Diner. Great food, great ambiance all at a great price. Darien Fusion with a splash.
Be seen there. Reservations a must.

Heuvel on July 9, 2009 12:05 PM

I'll be playing Ping-pank in a Geriakric ward before we get this menu! I don't know what is going Downes with this picnic- Howe the Helweg do we find out?

Jennifer Bates on June 17, 2009 3:51 PM

I just uploaded photos from Hollow Tree School.. grades 2 and 3... I included all the names I could, but there are a few ?? if anyone wants to help me out... gosh, we were cute.

Patti Craig on June 18, 2009 11:49 AM

Hey Goody,

Second grade picture...that is Peter Mason next to Shirley Warpula and Billy McFarland next to Ann D'Angeles. The person in the last frame will come to me (someday), Peter ?......
After second grade I went to Holmes School with Mardie Porter, Meg O'meara, Stu Traver, Dick Costello et al...

Anybody heard from Stu. Last we knew he was in Texas.

Jenny Bates on June 18, 2009 6:05 PM

Hi Patty:
Gosh, you're good! How about 'Reilly'... that sounds about right. My brain was smokin' remembering all those names... I keep finding pictures... will continue to scan and upload! Can't wait to reconnect in August... it will be fun!
Goody

Patti Craig (Shaw) on June 19, 2009 9:32 AM

Yeah, my hair caught fire trying to remember all those names. Once I get the flames down, I'll check for more old pix too. They are great.

Jenny Bates on June 18, 2009 6:19 PM

Patti, I forgot... Stu is working and living in Singapore. He said that he would like to make it back here in August, but he wouldn't know until the time got closer. Goody

Beverly Bonfoey on June 18, 2009 11:22 PM

To the person who posted that hideous photo of me - my first thought was - what was I thinking? did I not have mirrors in my house at that time? Anyway, a big 'thank you' to whomever posted the photo. Compared to that photo, no matter what I look like at the reunion, it'll be a huge improvement.

Patti Craig on June 22, 2009 6:10 PM

Hey Bev,
That wasn't me...don't have that pik.....but if I did I would have posted it....do I sense a little bit of vanity here? As for me, I'm showing up at the reunion in a gorrilla suit. Will you still dance with me?

Bev Bonfoey on June 27, 2009 10:53 PM

Hey Patti - No vanity, just amazement - don't you look back at pics and say 'what was I thinking?' Nope, won't dance with you, gorilla suit or not. I have an iron clad rule - only dance or sing in front of babies too young to talk! PS - don't think the suit will meet the dress code at Weeburn.

Olivia Vallee on July 2, 2009 6:31 PM

Bevallee -

Bite me, girlfriend. I mean, like that excuse is so 5 minutes ago. Totally major lame-o. I'm like, you know, totally barfed out. As if I'm wearin' some, like, rag, when I could be in, like, bitchin' body fur. Totally hot, fer shur. Whatever. I'm outta here.

Carol Ann Augustus Summers on June 28, 2009 11:13 AM

Hey,Patti & Steve, how will we recognize you if Steve isn't wearing red and you don't have a blonde flip? You'll recognize me. I'm still short. Looking forward to it. Bev & I are going as a couple.

Carol Ann

Patti Craig on June 28, 2009 4:58 PM

Hi Carol Ann,

Who knows, maybe Steve will come to the reunion dressed in red. There's no telling. Maybe he'll wear the gorilla suit since Bev won't dance with me if I wear it. As for me, the blonde flip is long gone...way gone. I'll put on a name tag and I'll be looking for you two.
Actually it was your posting that got me rummaging thru' my Dad's stuff this weekend. He knew your family well. He may have worked at the station in high school for pin money. I'm not sure. Which of the Augustus familes is your Dad and Mom? Are you related to Benny and Joey Bruno or is that Lope? Patti

Carol Ann Augustus Summers on June 29, 2009 12:48 PM

My parents are Rose & Nick Augustus on Hollow Tree. Your dad used to always take them to the airport. Did he go to DHS? Maybe he went to school with them. My mom was DHS Class of '45 and my dad Class of '46. Look at the class update. I put a picture of my brother Nicky & me. As I suspected, he and his wife will also be attending. Ask Steve if he remembers that I lived behind him when we were 4 years old. My backyard connected to his backyard when he lived on Crimmins Rd. Now that's a long time ago. Can't wait to see you guys.

Carol Ann

Carol Ann Augustus Summers on June 29, 2009 12:50 PM

Patti, I am not related to any Brunos, Frates or Saverines. I am related to Calve, Miceli and Monti. I know these Italian clans are hard to keep track of.

Steve on June 30, 2009 12:25 PM

Of course I remember Crimmins Rd...the Ostriechers and Chicatells, Billy Jackins (before Sue Geiger moved in), the Hepps and Traceys over on Fitch Ave...walking over to the fireworks behind Mather on the 4th (in your backyard), Luther Thompson directing the community orchestra in their crisp white shirts, the flood of '55 (or '57?) when hurricane Donna or Carol left Renshaw road under water...lotta memories back on Crimmins.

Carol Ann Augustus Summers on June 30, 2009 2:09 PM

Hurricane Carol 1955. The bleachers on the softball field were floating and my uncle Vincent Monti and Richie Forte were diving off of them. I thought I dreamed that up. Good to know I'm not totally senile. We used to play under that band stand. I don't know why, there must have been a million bugs. Good times growing up in a small town.

Craigbo on June 19, 2009 9:22 AM

Hey Stello -

I was checkin' out your class update info and called the listed number for a briefing, but some chick named Mustang Sally answered and she wouldn't give me the time of day, probably because it was after the Midnight Hour. So what gives? You livin' in the Land of 1000 Dances or what?

And yes, MX lives. You find the tower and I'll bring the paint.

Dick Costello on June 19, 2009 10:51 PM

Steve...alive and well in Va Beach...yep, spent my whole life cruising the seven seas....aboard the big ass haze grey kind of boats...with poor chow and men only....rang more salt water out of my socks than most people have sailed over....minimal fun...but lots of sea stories to tell. To show for it, I now have lots of tattoos and a potty mouth worse than Tinker's....just kidding about the tattoo part. Can't speak a sentence without an f bomb.....f'ing embarrassing. Your music recollection of the Wicked Picket is sound....I'm proud of you. Bring on the Schaefer beer. Where's Mitch Ryder and Detroit Wheels when we need him.....Bend Over Let Me See You Shake a Tail Feather. Bring your frisbee....we're going to flight test that mother.

Dick Costello on June 19, 2009 10:57 PM

One more critical data point I forgot to mention re the hallway DHS swimming pool gig. As you may, or probably do not recall, Rick Poccia's Dad was head janitor...really Superintendent of Darien Schools Maintnenance....or some similar title....we just used to call him the head janitor...in fact, he called himself that. But guess who had the keys to all the schools? Bada Bing Bada Boom. Poccia is still scared the FBI is going to track his prints down and bust his ass someday for that caper.

craigbo on June 21, 2009 7:44 AM

Well I'll be dipped. Rick Poccia....paragon of integrity...man of The Point....keymaster? Just think, all those years he passed me the baton - I should have asked him to pass me the keys.

As for the friz, I've got 238 grams of screamin' aerodynamic plastic just waiting for the moment. Of course, the last time it saw flight was with Lope back in '94. I'll dust it off. I was also thinking of bringing a shovel and trying to dig up "The Tomb". More on that later...

Webmeister on June 24, 2009 9:05 PM

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Sally Armus Shutts on June 27, 2009 10:06 PM

Just want to say THANK YOU all for your hard work. I just finished looking at the Photo Albums and see a lot of time and effort went into them. Well, they are very much enjoyed!!! We look forward to seeing you all. Sally & Sam

Carol Ann Augustus Summers on June 28, 2009 11:15 AM

Hey, Sally. I'm going to dig up some photos from Baker School. Looking forward to seeing you.

Carol Ann

PattiCraig on June 28, 2009 4:36 PM

Hi all,

I was going thru' my fathers old memorabilia this weekend and came across his old Dariannus from 1944. I was amazed at how many of us were legacies from that class. Here is a summary of what I found. I'm not sure of all of the connections that I made so please add/correct with info that you have. It'll be interesting to see what we come uip with.

Grad 1944                         Grad 1969

Joseph Augustus
Rose Monti (Augustus)        Carol Ann
Marie Frate                         Kathy Micha Frate
Douglas Gerstermaier         Doug Gerstermaier ('68)
Frank Keane                        Patty Keane
Eugene Maher                     Wendy Maher
Tom Monti                            Tom Monti
Charles Savarine                  George Savarine
                                             Patty Savarine ('68)
Hayward Schade                   Bill Schade
Howard Shaw                        Patti Shaw
                                              Cindi Shaw (73)
Robert Shaw ('45)                  Barbara Shaw
                                              Pam Shaw (73)
Charles Snyder                      Florence 'Flip' Snyder
William Strassser*                 Bill Strasser (67)
Charles Teplica Billy Teplica ('68)
Robert Wood
William Wood                          Doug Wood (?)

* Linda Donaldson's mother was a Strasser, Evelyn?.
    Patty Fitzsimmons mother was Marie ?
Joannie Dobson are you a legacy too? Dave Lynch?

Carol Ann Augustus Summers on June 29, 2009 1:00 PM

OK, here goes: Joseph Augustus '45 is my uncle & godfather. Joseph Augustus '79 is my younger brother. Thomas Monti '44 was my uncle (my mother's brother), so Tom Monti' 69 and Cathy Monti '67 were my 1st cousins. They are both deceased. Anne Augustus '76 and Nicky Augustus '70 are also my brother & sister. Joanie Dobson's parents were from Stamford but she & her brothers & sisters graduated from DHS. Mrs. Fitzsimmons was a Mazzeo from Hollow Tree across from the Lopriores. Patti Keane's father was Johnny Keane, also from Stamford. My father can give more info. He loves to tell stories about growing up in the Depression.

Patti Craig on June 29, 2009 3:05 PM

Thanks for all the info Carol Ann. I've had a lot of bits and pieces of family info but no longer remembered how they went together. I've got your family down now. And I was really excited to see Mrs. Fitzsimmons maiden name again. I kept trying to make her a Mazza but didn't think that was right. She and my Dad were old buds and altho' they used to argue with each other constantly over Lassie League rules, they were good friends.
I'd love to hear your Dad's stories. My Dad died suddenly in 2003 so my reference is gone. But both he and my Uncle Bob, grew up in town so we may have similar Depression and other town stories.
'Can't wait to see you in August. I'll see if I can get my sister, Cindi, and her husband to come. Patti

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Mark Tinker on March 16, 2009 12:34 AM

Come on mf-ers! How about some dirt! Some info! Some participation! We're going to be dead soon. I mean 40 f-ing years! Holy crap! Let's enjoy it while we still can. Fire things up! Okay, enough exclamation points. Sorry. And why am I not completing my swear words? It's the fucking internet for Christ sakes. Dr. Bruno's in his jockey shorts surfing for gay porn as we speak. Bring it. Warmest personal regards, Mark

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James Tyler on March 19, 2009 5:30 AM

Mark-
I ran into Patty Hearst (Tania) at the bank yesterday. She says 'Hi'. Wanted to know what your doing and stuff.
I went to the ATM

Later-Eddie Tyler

Mark Tinker on March 19, 2009 12:45 PM

Re: your post -- Patty's become a bit of a pain in the ass. Since she missed the SLA shootout she always wants to play Donald "Cinque" DeFreeze vs. The LAPD. The bummer is she makes me be DeFreeze so I always wind up burnt to a crisp. Past that life is good. Hoping you, Pieface, will get up and belt out some blues on 8/15. See you at V's.

George Wehmann on March 19, 2009 11:35 AM

Hey Mark, great idea for a new series - "We're Gonna Be Dead Soon!"
George

Mark Tinker on April 12, 2009 9:15 PM

Don't need to make it a series. We're living it!

Lauren F. on March 22, 2009 3:52 PM

Mark and anyone else who has visited this site -Send some pix (you, kids, grandkids, parents...whatever ) to John V for posting on the website - might build some momentum !Also send website to anyone you know/find
Lauren F

Webmeister on April 9, 2009 2:14 PM

Actually just go to the Photo Albums page on the website and upload any pictures yourself! Cool.

Jennifer Bates on March 23, 2009 8:34 AM

Hey Stinker:
Violet is really bugging me... she is such a whiner.. have her grow some, will you?
Love your work, even if you were mean to me in English class.
Your fan.
Jenny

dave jordan on April 9, 2009 1:06 PM

He was mean to me too. Locked me in the display case. Oh well, I've been mean to people too.

Mark Tinker on April 10, 2009 12:58 AM

Mean? I was probably just drunk. Mr. Hufstader and I used to polish of a pint or two of Old Crow before class. However, if I misbehaved I humbly apologize but Kee-rist! Talk about carrying a grudge! Hello? 40 years!!?? Besides it was most likely Costello or Poccia. You gotta be mean to go to Annapolis.

dave jordan on April 10, 2009 3:17 AM

40 yrs is nothing. My kids are telling their kids as if it was yesterday. Just kidding. Sadly that's how it works in too many places.
I'm with Jenifer on Violette, now Charlotte is just right.
I've forgotten way more than I ever knew.

dave jordan on April 12, 2009 1:36 PM

Mark, now you tell me. I was sure you were into the hi-test Beefeaters with Hastings Foote. I myself preferred Ms Irish's whiskey.

Dave Terry on March 24, 2009 6:22 PM

Tinker's right. Let's see some action here!! No Fear, Fools!! First of all, this Website Rocks!!! Ha!! I was laughing my ass off. But then I hit the Memorials and was blown away. After looking at that, I'm really glad a few of us are still here. I'm aiming to see you all, but can't commit until I get a few things out of the way. Like my mother's in Hospice and I bet I'm not alone. You all are awesome!

Meri Bjork on April 3, 2009 7:27 PM

I ran into a tree, Pie Face. It'll be great to "run into" real people for a change!

dave jordan on April 9, 2009 1:01 PM

who the hell are all those old people in the photos. Cripes I still see you all as you were 40 years ago. Who woulda thunk being short would be a handy identifier 40 years later. I hear Doc has been found.

Patti Craig (Shaw) on April 10, 2009 1:57 PM

A shout out to Bev Bonfoey!; You gonna bring any of that jacked-up joy juice that you used to pour down our throats before games, or what?!; Oh...and...where's Skins?

Patti

Bev Bonfoey on May 2, 2009 11:31 AM

Hey Patty - I'm a little slow at getting to this website. Not bringing any treats to the reunion. As crazy as it sounds, I started playing softball again about ten years ago. Still can't run but have a great time. Don't know where any once is except Carol Ann and Nancy>

Patti Craig on April 11, 2009 3:46 PM

Hey Jenny,

Mark's right. It was either Dick or Rick who hurled that fat phlegm ball at you when you called Hamlet a curtain clinger whose 'woman of interest' was his.............MAMA.

Dennis Sullivan on April 14, 2009 11:24 PM

Great to hear from all of you!!! I took early retirement last August. I'll bore you with my subsequent series of woes since then so I won't bore you when I see y'all in August. 33 years with UOP as a technology/sales manager. Saw a lot of the world I wouldn't have otherwise seen. Nonetheless, time to connect with the heart rather than the brain. But three weeks after I retired in August, the river (Upper North Branch of the Chicago River) in my back yard flooded and destroyed 1/3 of my house (no insurance). It almost flooded again at the end of December and twice in the beginning of March; needless so say, conniption fits galore and my blood pressure is shot to hell. Can't stop the river: just not feasible. Guess I need mo' better drugs! In the meantime, 3 close friends have died from cancer. And, after 8 years, Susan and I are separating. So the house, in a flood plain, clearly damaged and in a depressed market will take, I imagine, a bit of a hit. I must have pissed off somebody above (or below)! Hey, but other than that, Mrs. Lincoln, how did you enjoy the play??? So don't ask me how I'm enjoying retirement! When I have a chance to know, then I'll tell you! But what the heck. The weather, even in Chicago, is getting better, so there definitely will be better days ahead. I must admit I was very saddened to learn of Bob Binder's passing. One of the highlights for me during the 25th reunion in 1994 was, after the softball game, going with Bob and a few others to a local bar and pounding down a few brews. I got to know Bob better in those two hours than I had in the 3 years of high school. It enriched me. And I send my thoughts and prayers to him and to his two sons. Stopped cutting my hair in August so I guess I am returning to the early 70s (too much engineering, not enough DS and R&R!). Looking forward to August and hope all is well with y'all. Dennis

dave jordan on April 16, 2009 1:44 AM

Hey Dennis, good on you for sharing your story. My son lives in Chicago and he was telling me about the Chicago River and how it was once the biggest engineering project in the world when they changed the direction of its flow, basically instead of the sewage going into lake michigan they got it to eventually go down the Mississippi. I'm surprised you didn't have flood insurance as I thought banks required it for any mortgages in the flood zone.
Sorry to hear about people you know and cancer. The longer we live the more we're going to be dealing with people dying. I last saw Ed Tyler in 81, I believe, so I haven't had any news from Darien at all. It's a little awkward going through the year book and trying to remember everyone, realizing that most don't remember me either, but that's okay as what Tinker says about being nearly dead kinda puts a different perspective to it.
I did get pitched a yearbook update from some company. I went ahead and ordered it (70 bucks for God's sake) and I'm hoping it was legitimate.
I think we were kind of a special class. The first man on the moon and woodstock. How many other classes had such events? Wishing you all well-dj

Heuvel on April 20, 2009 4:55 PM

Sully,

Sorry to hear about the tough times. We're trying to put together a benefit for you....maybe we can get the former cheerleaders to do a carwash!

Dennis Sullivan on April 21, 2009 8:29 PM

What do you mean "maybe"? Whatever, that's good enough to me! I'll bring the chocolate chip cookies for the bake sale!

Vera Adams (Koreckij) on April 16, 2009 10:58 AM

Hi to anyone available! Since I have no work today at work so far, thought I might do something smart. Had a nice talk last week with Pieface and caught up with some news when he called about the reunion. I'm part of the The Dream Team at an upstate New York psychiatric hospital; It's a state hospital and paranoia is the norm;.. but I do my best; Just will make this a short note for now.

dave jordan on April 16, 2009 11:45 AM

yikes! what is all this <br /><br /> stuff? Is that psychiatric lingo? I always suspected I was out of it, this kinda confirms it. peace

Webmeister on April 17, 2009 8:30 AM

Occasionally computer-related symbols appear on these comments. I think it relates to using cut/paste. We can edit those symbols out. It has nothing to do with Shrinks and/or paranoia. Does it Vera or is that just me??

Rick Poccia on April 19, 2009 3:02 PM

Mark, Patti, Jenny:

What am I being accused of? I can't remember what I did yesterday, let alone 40 years ago.

Looking forward to 8/14.

Patti Craig on April 21, 2009 4:28 PM

Hmmmmmmm, Rick has CRS. Maybe he was too sweet to fling a lugey anyway. And Mark denies that his was the Roi de Lugey. Could it have been that Bruno Boy? Or was Dick Costello the Phantom Phlegmster?

Steve Craig on April 23, 2009 9:25 AM

Well, I'm not sure about Rick's inherent sweetness, but I can't sit back and allow these accusations to be hurled at this pillar, this lead man of the fastest whitebread 880 relay team in CT. Hell, Tink, you should know, you were on that team. So as for Rick, eel slipper...yes. Phlegm flicker...no way.
Love and kisses, Dorothy (Yeah Rick - I'm from Kansas too.)

Mark Tinker on April 23, 2009 10:34 PM

Now that's the most clever response yet on this blog. Bravo from a past probationary MX member.

Jenny Bates on April 19, 2009 4:12 PM

Wait, wait, wait.. I got a lugey hurled at me? High school was worse than I thought... my first day of high school I was in the cafe and Dallas Pullium and Jay Condon started a jello fight and I got a huge green jello ball to the face... but the three years and 10,000 laughs that followed made up for it... but that lugey... I still put my money on Tinker...

Mark Tinker on April 19, 2009 5:10 PM

I was not the lugey king, You must be thinking of that Bruno boy. He could bring it up with the best of 'em. Past that, look hard at Rick Poccia. He may feign an innocent demeanor but don't let that "snake" fool you.

Steve Verses on April 20, 2009 1:03 PM

Tink, stop making those "snake" references about Poccia. You're going to scare him off again!!!!!

dave jordan on April 20, 2009 1:52 PM

Hey Steve! I always remember you as having a kind, good soul. One lesson I learned from you was to never open the radiator cap when hot, seriously that was important to know. Other lessons I've learned the hard way------thanks, dj

steve verses on April 20, 2009 3:34 PM

Hey DJ, just make sure you show up in August and don't forget your fiddle....see you then.

Heuvel on April 25, 2009 12:58 PM

Verse - Happy one year Anniversary! Many more.
John vdH

Dick Costello on June 16, 2009 8:17 PM

OK, Uncle....I give up....couldn't stand it any longer. Your collective brains have all turned to mush over this loogey issue. There was only one King of the Loogey....I repeat....only one....he had no peer....it was Stringer. Tink, Rick P, and anybody else you want to throw in there couldn't hold a candle to the chocolate-laden muc balls Stringer could hurl. That said, don't think he ever flew one at Jenny.....not his style. And I won't even mention the spit pit....can't go there.....won't go there....X rated....over.

Mardie Porter on April 20, 2009 5:26 PM

Hey Dennis,
You’ve set a new standard for blog entries, woe and all....

I, too, was blown away by the Memorial section. I had no idea that Bob Binder had died. He and I...... well.... that was a long time ago..... Anybody know what happened?

I appreciate the brief history Dennis provided, and hope others will do the same. I know some have heard many of my tales of woe and intrigue, so I’ll try to be brief. Just prior to the 25th reunion Mark and I had moved here from Alaska. Those tales have been told (canoe on Pacific Ocean for 3 months, halibut fishing, living on island, cruise ship steward, group home manager... blah, blah blah) So I’ll start from there. The group home job led to degrees in special education, specializing in working with kids with Autism. With summers off and lots of vacations I’ve managed to keep the job for 20 years so far. We have a big garden, go skiing and hiking to stay relatively in shape.

So, for now, we’re hanging in there, hoping for a continued stress-free life and a full freezer in the fall. I really appreciate this website. I’ve been in touch with a bunch of folks, thanks to this connection, and really lovin’ it. So, thanks again and see you soon.

Mardie Porter

dave jordan on April 20, 2009 6:03 PM

Hey Mardie, fellow Mainer here. We live in Somerville (next to Washington) population around 500. Unfortunately probably 80 of those are from one family, but that's another story. We built our house in 77, with an outhouse and lugging water and outdoor bucket showers. We got all the modern stuff now. Yeah I wanted to live in the woods. I didn't realize that meant cutting trees down for the rest of my life. I've pushed em back pretty far but now that I'm not so robust they're gaining on me. One year the deer ate our garden so we got hunting licenses and put the deer in the freezer. Erica (spouse) is a special ed teacher too. Not easy. I really do enjoy every one telling their stories. --peace--dj

Dennis Sullivan on April 21, 2009 8:39 PM

Mardi, Dave: Kudos to you both! I agree; I've love to see others post some of their life events here. As much as I'd want to, I know I won't be able to spend as much time this August with everyone who does come to the reunion, so I truly enjoy reading these entries. Heck, even if someone can't make it to the reunion, it'd be great to hear from them! Though the lugie stories are entertaining as well!!!

Chris Bischof on April 22, 2009 9:25 PM

Dave Jordan -- Greetings. If your last trip to Darien was 1981, then you haven't seen the changes along Tokeneke Road, including changes to your old house. It's a lot bigger now.

dave jordan on April 23, 2009 11:54 AM

Hello Chris, nice to hear from you. Sorry, I meant I hadn't seen nor heard from anyone in our class since 81. I did visit my parents who I think it was around 99 sold out and moved near my sister in Stonington, Ct. They're now in the stoneridge retirement place in Stonington. (a nice and huge place by the way) I've seen pictures of our old house on Tokeneke Rd, unbelievable, a tad too big for the lot in my opinion. I never liked that location as 136 was way too busy and close to the house. Backing out to go to Royaton was a trip. I sure miss Knobel Bros. Anyone who knows me up here quotes Mr. Knobel. Keep these postings coming------dj

Chris Bischof on May 17, 2009 8:47 AM

Dave,
Did you ever wonder why Knobel Brothers gave a 10% discount on all CASH purchases?
Chris

Mark Pemburn on April 23, 2009 7:55 AM

Hey all,

First visit to the site. Kind of fun seeing names I haven't heard uttered in -- well, you know how many years . . .

My wife, Leanne, and I live in a woodland paradise in rural Maryland with our dog, cat, chickens and bees. We lived in the city (Baltimore) for many years and it was good but this is far better.

I no longer have any relatives in Darien since my parents passed nearly ten years ago. We moved back into my boyhood home for several months in '99 to take care of mom after dad died and, truth to tell, we found the town to be completely without charm. Cold. Sorry if this discomfits any of y'all.

I wish you well in all your endeavors but we'll most likely not be seeing you at the reunion.

All the best,

Mark
P.S. Mark Tinker -- I ain't anywhere near dead yet; just getting warmed up. ;-)

Heuvel on April 25, 2009 3:20 PM

Hi Mark- Enjoyed your Facebook page. I hope you can make the reunion. I think it will be the last/best. John vdH

Mark Tinker on April 24, 2009 9:49 PM

You gotta check out this site. Some of us were there but had no idea that's what he sang! http://www.elwp.com/Joe%20Cocker.html

Mardie Porter on April 25, 2009 7:40 AM

Thanks, Mark. I almost spilled my granola while watching...
Mardie

Mark Tinker on April 25, 2009 11:37 PM

A race to V's is one thing but here's something we might have done in the old days just to get a brewski. Stay 'til the end. http://www.liveleak.com/view?i=c55_1240671003

Heuvel on April 27, 2009 9:54 PM

How about this site:

Fear Your High School Reunion? Hire a stripper... (click link)

Heuvel on April 25, 2009 12:32 PM

Mark - Love the site. Someone suggested this site too:

http://objflicks.com/TakeMeBackToTheSixties.htm>http://objflicks.com/TakeMeBackToTheSixties.htm

You were at Woodstock??

Mark Tinker on April 25, 2009 2:21 PM

Yessir. Lots of our guys there. Among them (though my memory can be faulty), Geo, Gibbs, Jaybo, Alfie, Verse, Lane (?) Butch Savery, Doc, Farrington (?), T.C. (?), Weurthner (?) Mr. Impressive (?), Cliff (?), Potts (?). I know there were plenty of others but I'll stop guessing and let the particpants identify themselves. I'm pretty sure we were the only guys there with beer. Plenty of good stories out of that trip. We'd just come back from a cross-country hitchhiking excursion specifically to go there. Ah, the good old days back when I still had hair.

dave jordan on April 25, 2009 3:21 PM

having been at woodstock i guess we all have refined our stories. The one I tell most often is that I went up 2 or 3 days before it started with Ron Festa in my VW beetle. I was one of the few idiots to buy a ticket, not cheap as I recall. We set up camp in a field with other folks as far as the eye could see. Some how we wound up hitch hiking into town and went swimming, as it was hotter than hell. As we made our way back, I realized I had left my wallet on the front seat of the beetle and since we had left with no plan, I remembered the doors to the beetle were open. I was cursing myself for not being more careful and in the evening when we got back the only thing that had been touched was the cooler. Someone had put some beer in as they noticed there was ice! Where we were camped we had to walk through the woods to get to the main stage. It was like a county fair, with christmas tree lights set up everywhere and all these vendors selling weed, acid and whatever. Before we got to the main stage we had to pass where there were 3 or 4 busses parked with they're own stage set up. I spent quite a bit time there to avoid the crowds of the main area, after all where I sat in the main area the sound waves traveling at different speeds was confusing. You'd hear the treble and the bass arriving at completely different times. Turns out those busses were the merry pranksters ala. Ken Kesey (who didn't attend). After the fact Tim Maul had given me assigned reading, the Electric Kool-Aid Acid Test and assigned listening to Live Dead with Dark Star. I had no idea those busses had such a history.
I could go on, but I'll leave you'll with the most important revelation I had. All us gassers who had been relentlessly making fun of the fuelies found out at woodstock that we had all been secretly smoking the bush with the fuelies. It all came out at woodstock.

Gary Gibbs on April 26, 2009 11:00 PM

Ok. I'm in. Woodstock brings back the good times, albeit a 40 year old memory that might be embellished a little bit. At 2am in the morning, two days prior to Woodstock I was partying on the beach in Nantucket with Bob Ierardi and a bunch of crazy people. A really cute chick, who I never saw before, asked me (and maybe everybody) if I would like to go to Woodstock. Needless to say, the sucker I was (nothing has changed), said ok. We proceeded to take the ferry and with the clothes on our back and hich-hike to Woodstock. What a wild weekend. I learned more in three days than three years at Darien High School. Then I proceeded to forget everything. If you want to hear the wonderful details (as only remember with age and senility), I will be hosting a seminar at V's after the party. Hairy Pitts (aka Gibbs)

Meri Bjork on April 30, 2009 7:04 AM

I didn't make it to Woodstock, but Christy Clark and I took my Beetle and hoofed it to the Newport jazz Festival in July '69 to witness the rock 'n roll greats. While under the influence of "rose colored glasses", prancing under the stars amidst the masses, a fellow frolicker came up to us and said, " hey, girls, take off your clothes and dig the rain". We stopped mid step, looked at each other and ran away! Gee, we only looked "experienced" and Jimi wasn't even playing.

Livin' the quiet life in Vt.
Meri

Heuvel on April 30, 2009 2:45 PM

Meri- We would appreciate if you upload those photos!

Anne Irvine on April 30, 2009 3:13 PM

Hi to everyone. I've been living in Washington State since graduating from college. Somehow, I found myself working in commercial real estate for most of that time; basically, I am a real estate paralegal. Other than work, I have spent time raising three daughters and am now a grandmother ad enjoying that. Not as lucky in the husband arena as the mother/grandmother arena...oh well! Single is good, too! LOL! I am going to be moving to Maine this summer so I thought I might join the reunion this time around. Honestly, I remember some of the names and some of the faces but, owing to age (maybe?), I have sadly forgotten many of our classmates. I think it will be a kick to reconnect. Hope you are all living a happy life!

Mardie Porter on April 30, 2009 4:05 PM

Hi Anne,
Glad to hear you're coming to the reunion. And, that you're moving to Maine. As you've probably figured out, I live in Maine (along with David Jordan, Denise Pommier, Others?). Where are you moving to? This blog/website is helping me restore my memory, so thanks to all who write in!
Mardie

Patti Craig (Shaw) on May 1, 2009 3:06 PM

Hi Anne,
Me too. I'm delighted that you're coming to the reunion and moving back east. Remember our summers at the swim club and those sexy green and white team suits we had? Do you know where Tigger Smith is or any of the Caldwell boys?
Patti

Anne Irvine on May 4, 2009 11:55 AM

Hi Patti. Oh yes, I remember the swim club - didn't we virtually live there?! I have to tell you that I am clueless as to the whereabouts of almost everyone. Mark Blackman was my brother-in-law for about 15 years so I know where he is. I corresponded with Anna Lamberton for a bit a few years back and Dave Terry got in contact with me a few years back as well. Other than that, I was one of those who just disappeared into the woodwork (purposefully for the most part, I confess)! I do wonder about those guys though. I had forgotten about the Caldwells but I remember Tigger because he lived so close to where I lived for a long while. Funny thinking about all these people! Mostly, when I do, I think of how ridiculous my behavior was as a teenager for the most part! LOL! Thank God for second chances and third chances and for maturity and perspective!

Anne Irvine on May 4, 2009 11:48 AM

I will be moving to West Gardiner. My sister, Jane, and her husband, moved back there last fall. She had been out here in Seattle all these years along with me. She, my sister, Laurie, and I have all been chomping at the bit to get back East for many years now. It used to be great out here but it has become just another California. There's way too much traffic, too many people and the pace of life and the cost of living has become prohibitive. Mainly though, we just want to get back to our roots. Hopefully, the three of us will end up out there for the "end of our days" - sitting on the porch, drinking a glass or wine or coffee (got to have that Seattle coffee if nothing else from back here) and watching the sun go down - sounds good to me. My, my idea of fun has certainly changed over the years! And, like you, this blog is really pushing me to remember a bunch of stuff I had completely forgotten!

George Wehmann on May 6, 2009 6:47 PM

Came back from hitchhiking trek Mark mentions to go to Woodstock too. Met Gerry Betts for a beer in Port Chester. We had to split up to find his towed car and I got mugged. Fractured skull, 3 weeks in Stamford Hospital, missed Woodstock. Sometimes ya get the elevator, sometimes the shaft. Bump on head got me out of Vietnam, deaf in left ear. Was #60 on lottery. CT draft lottery went to 121. Glitch in college computer system dropped my student deferment. Still not sure if I was lucky or unlucky. Gerry saved my life. PC cops released me to him. Shoulda sued their asses. The shoulda put me in hosp. His car was impounded for parking ticket. Gerry carried me 4 miles to I95 and got me home. Sorry we never stayed more in touch. He was usher in my wedding. Another good friend in Ohio got killed on motorcycle. Life...

Heuvel on May 14, 2009 4:44 PM

George- An amazing story. That week-end sounds like a 'tipping point' in your life.

George Wehmann on July 18, 2009 10:22 AM

Nah, life's turning points have been many... actually finishing college, getting out of commuting to Manhattan after 11 years, getting married, having two kids, moving to NC and just last month, had brain surgery.

I'm REALLY looking forward to the DHS 40th reunion. But weekend before reunion REALLY looking forward to rafting the Delaware River. It would be great if any DHS class of 69 can join us. See web links below.

Rafted and canoed the Delaware every year for about 10 years B4 moving to NC. By far the most fun all Summer. Kids grew up hearing about these trips, but they've never been. At 23 and 27, they're old enough and they're coming.

Good chance about a dozen or more people joining us - people from Fairfield and Westchester Counties.

More information about the place that rents the rafts and has large campging area along the River.
http://landersrivertrips.com/

There's information about fees:
http://landersrivertrips.com/landers/rates.htm

There's information about location:
http://landersrivertrips.com/landers/directions.htm

There's information about various ways to get down the river.
http://landersrivertrips.com/landers/river.htm

Some videos showing the experience:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-Kdd42zjDCE http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8hUXG1W83OY http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=in14RgE9Q4c http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aWBKvXyzDYw http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Gj-mgY0Uhic Search YouTube.com look for "Delaware River Trip"

We hope DHS alum can join us. No organizing committed. Reply to this if you're interested and want to join us. Or check me out on Facebook.

Mary Brown on August 10, 2009 6:38 AM

If anyone saw Dateline last night it was all about Woodstock. How about the 40th Anniversary of Abbey Road! 1969 was a GREAT year!

Congratulations to all who are attending the reunion and to the committee, thanks for your hard work. I'm sure you will have a great time.

We need a video on Youtube. If that happens, let us all know.

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